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Jan. 14th, 2007 11:34 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
alibaliyea so uhm happy new year. haven't really had much to say.. although theres tons to say.
we spent new years at john and jerilyns.. we actually stayed until like 2 something which is really good for us lol.. usually we're falling asleep by about 1230.
the dog is getting fluffier by the second. i can now put the black stripe of hair down his back into a mohawk without any problems. too bad the cats dont realize how badass this makes him and still go to swat at him (well just Louie anyway).
i yelled at the breeder. she's sending us a check to pay for all the ear mite meds.. granted there were only ear mites on the dog.. but she doesn't know that. and it made me happy to lie to her and get some money back. i highly doubt i'll ever see the check.. but i guess only time will tell.
the condo is.. well the condo. theres still no bathroom. we're going on 2 weeks into having the tile just sitting in the living room. which sucks cause we only have 30 days to return the extra boxes of tile which i know there will be. so thats really frustrating. we painted the bedroom. its like neon green. there will be no sleeping in there.
work is work. i get paid to play sudoku and i'm not complaining.
jeanette got herself knocked up and is now marrying the guy. which is good cause he has insurance and is actually being responsible enough to marry her (altho i guess if he actually were responsible he would have maybe used a condom or hell pulled out). but the morons actually think they're in love. maybe i'm just fickle. but after knowing someone for about 2 months i dont think you can be in love. i could even think about letting it slide if they hung out or talked all the time.. i really could. but they saw each other about once a week. you can't fall in love with someone you've seen 8 times. really, i must be crazy to think this though. she moved into his trailer this week. yeah, his trailer. she's having a wedding at my parents inn becaues they felt bad that she was going to the justice of the peace (which in PA shares a building with the DMV and the local womens jail.. lovely right?)
the annoying part is shes planning it like a real wedding. which would be fine except the reception is in my parents restaurant. she wants my cousin to "announce her coming in" and i'm thinking what you want him to say loudly to all 15 of us that craig and jeanette are now walking into dining room 3? i dont understand it. the only weddings she's been to are mine and my sisters. which were both in catering halls - ya know places where you actually would announce the bride and groom walking in.
she didn't ask me to be matron of honor. she told me. she knew if she asked i would say no. she also told my sister and i that she was borrowing our veil. ya know, the veil my sister and i splurged on and bought together with the intention of passing it down our family because we got married 3 months apart. yea, at first i felt bad and said yes (after melissa and i went on a 40 minute lecture about how much veils suck and we wish we didn't have to wear one .. which isn't true at all but still lol) and then after we both thought about it, we didn't want her using it. she was planning on wearing it the whole day not just the ceremony. she's a sweaty messy girl. i dont need her dancing around dining room 3 (probably drinking cause shes so classy) and ripping our veil.
when we told her the whole reason why jews wear a veil and then asked why she needs to wear one in her religion. she just went i dont know. so my sister said "it doesn't matter to you so why do you want to wear it?" her response: Just cause i dont know what its for doesn't mean i dont have to wear one according to my religion. i had to literally bite my tongue to keep from saying "and is getting knocked up part of your religion? or do you just pick and choose" so yeah in the end i told her i didn't want her using it cause my mom loaned out her wedding dress and it got ruined and i KNOW she wouldn't do something like that but its not a chance we want to take. she cried. i gave her tissues and awkwardly left the room. i think she blames melissa though which sucks. i woulda much rather had her blame me and hate me cause maybe then i woulda been dethroned as matron of honor. but no, instead she gives melissa the cold shoulder now. lucky lucky me.
i'm not giving a speech. i can't. theres nothing i have to say. if i get forced into it i'm thinking of mentioning the baby (which her brothers aren't allowed to know about.. shes gonna say it happened on their honeymoon - ya know the 12 horus after the wedding cause craig won't take a day off of work lol) or maybe the tattoos (yea we have stupidass matching ones.. that her dad doesn't know about) i can't imagine pretending i'm adult enough to have a child and still hiding a tattoo from my father. hell after these last 3 weeks with the dog, i dont think i can ever have children. i will adopt 5 year olds.
so yeah.. i have a lot more to say.. but i'm off to lunch with linda.
we spent new years at john and jerilyns.. we actually stayed until like 2 something which is really good for us lol.. usually we're falling asleep by about 1230.
the dog is getting fluffier by the second. i can now put the black stripe of hair down his back into a mohawk without any problems. too bad the cats dont realize how badass this makes him and still go to swat at him (well just Louie anyway).
i yelled at the breeder. she's sending us a check to pay for all the ear mite meds.. granted there were only ear mites on the dog.. but she doesn't know that. and it made me happy to lie to her and get some money back. i highly doubt i'll ever see the check.. but i guess only time will tell.
the condo is.. well the condo. theres still no bathroom. we're going on 2 weeks into having the tile just sitting in the living room. which sucks cause we only have 30 days to return the extra boxes of tile which i know there will be. so thats really frustrating. we painted the bedroom. its like neon green. there will be no sleeping in there.
work is work. i get paid to play sudoku and i'm not complaining.
jeanette got herself knocked up and is now marrying the guy. which is good cause he has insurance and is actually being responsible enough to marry her (altho i guess if he actually were responsible he would have maybe used a condom or hell pulled out). but the morons actually think they're in love. maybe i'm just fickle. but after knowing someone for about 2 months i dont think you can be in love. i could even think about letting it slide if they hung out or talked all the time.. i really could. but they saw each other about once a week. you can't fall in love with someone you've seen 8 times. really, i must be crazy to think this though. she moved into his trailer this week. yeah, his trailer. she's having a wedding at my parents inn becaues they felt bad that she was going to the justice of the peace (which in PA shares a building with the DMV and the local womens jail.. lovely right?)
the annoying part is shes planning it like a real wedding. which would be fine except the reception is in my parents restaurant. she wants my cousin to "announce her coming in" and i'm thinking what you want him to say loudly to all 15 of us that craig and jeanette are now walking into dining room 3? i dont understand it. the only weddings she's been to are mine and my sisters. which were both in catering halls - ya know places where you actually would announce the bride and groom walking in.
she didn't ask me to be matron of honor. she told me. she knew if she asked i would say no. she also told my sister and i that she was borrowing our veil. ya know, the veil my sister and i splurged on and bought together with the intention of passing it down our family because we got married 3 months apart. yea, at first i felt bad and said yes (after melissa and i went on a 40 minute lecture about how much veils suck and we wish we didn't have to wear one .. which isn't true at all but still lol) and then after we both thought about it, we didn't want her using it. she was planning on wearing it the whole day not just the ceremony. she's a sweaty messy girl. i dont need her dancing around dining room 3 (probably drinking cause shes so classy) and ripping our veil.
when we told her the whole reason why jews wear a veil and then asked why she needs to wear one in her religion. she just went i dont know. so my sister said "it doesn't matter to you so why do you want to wear it?" her response: Just cause i dont know what its for doesn't mean i dont have to wear one according to my religion. i had to literally bite my tongue to keep from saying "and is getting knocked up part of your religion? or do you just pick and choose" so yeah in the end i told her i didn't want her using it cause my mom loaned out her wedding dress and it got ruined and i KNOW she wouldn't do something like that but its not a chance we want to take. she cried. i gave her tissues and awkwardly left the room. i think she blames melissa though which sucks. i woulda much rather had her blame me and hate me cause maybe then i woulda been dethroned as matron of honor. but no, instead she gives melissa the cold shoulder now. lucky lucky me.
i'm not giving a speech. i can't. theres nothing i have to say. if i get forced into it i'm thinking of mentioning the baby (which her brothers aren't allowed to know about.. shes gonna say it happened on their honeymoon - ya know the 12 horus after the wedding cause craig won't take a day off of work lol) or maybe the tattoos (yea we have stupidass matching ones.. that her dad doesn't know about) i can't imagine pretending i'm adult enough to have a child and still hiding a tattoo from my father. hell after these last 3 weeks with the dog, i dont think i can ever have children. i will adopt 5 year olds.
so yeah.. i have a lot more to say.. but i'm off to lunch with linda.
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Date: 2007-01-14 05:12 pm (UTC)Doesn't she think someone is going to do the math on the pregnancy? Or hell, even question why she's rushing to marry a man she's known for two months?
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Date: 2007-01-14 05:15 pm (UTC)apparently the whole family is stupid cause they dont think anyone will figure it out. when they told her aunt she was getting married she just said "is she pregnant" and the parents were like no no no. when she called her mom and told her (this was before marriage was even mentioned.. just that she was pregnant) she squealed with excitement. i was like are you kidding me?
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